Hi.  I’m Crew Spence, and I’m the creator of MakeLifeMakeLove.com.  I started my life as a socially awkward biracial kid from the suburbs. Once I turned 18 everything changed. Since then I’ve been an MMA fighter, a professional wrestler, stayed in a Buddhist temple, worked as a model, a photographer, a writer, an extreme endurance athlete, a high-end corporate salesman, and now a professional pickup artist. I enjoy challenging myself, and believe that social interaction is a great frontier.

I support an “Americanized” eastern philosophy.  I call it “Tyler Durden without the bombs.”  I pull no punches and say exactly what I mean. I realize that my perspective isn’t for everyone.  This blog is for the people that get it.  There aren’t many of us other there, but you know who you are.

Dating advice isn’t exactly a normal 9 to 5, and I hear a lot of skepticism.  I am proud to say that I am among the premier relationship coaches in the world, and work with other greats like Adam Lyons.  The language of romance is a forgotten art that can help both men and women alike.

My experience in the dating community led me to investigate other ways of improving my life.  I believe that what I teach is a life hack.  It’s like life is a video game, and you have all of the cheat codes.  People have it in their heads that life has to be difficult.  Human beings have a way of making simple things complicated.

I call my blog Make Life Make Love because that’s exactly what I help people do.  In this blog we will discuss a number of topics like dating advice, minimalism, travel, and lifestyle design.  I enjoy meeting new people and hope that this site will bring people together, and help them to live better lives.